Are you tired of putting other people first and saying “yes” to everything, simply because you’re terrified to make them mad?
Does saying “no” to someone cause your stomach to churn and feel an immense weight of guilt when someone is disappointed in you?
Have these habits lead you to feeling completely lost about who you are, having no idea what makes you happy or how to make yourself a priority?
Girl, you’re in the right place.
It’s time to finally stop this people-pleasing cycle, learn how to say “no,” and feel confident in your decisions to put yourself first.
Women like you deserve to feel confident in themselves and make a huge impact in this world. You have the power to change the narrative of what’s expected from you, and finally build a life the way YOU want it, not from what someone wants for you.
I’ve been where you are right now.
I grew up in a small town (literally one with zero stoplights and less than 90 people in my graduating senior class!). Why is this important? Because living in a small town means that everyone knows everything about you, or at least, they think they do. And with those thoughts come opinions and expectations.
If I tried to step outside of my box that everyone put me in, I was seen as “weird” and shamed. In fact, the one time I did try and go against what was expected of me, the career counselor broke me down to tears and said I was going to have a miserable life. (Boy, was she wrong!)
Crippling fear of failure and worry about what other people thought about me followed me through college, and once I graduated, I was miserable.
I said “yes” to everyone, did what was expected from me, and what society says I “should” do after you finish college. Got the job, had the boyfriend, everything should have been fine.
But it wasn’t.
I was depressed, anxious, and questioned everything about my life.
The good news? I changed everything.
Diving into personal growth, I found my voice, established boundaries with other people, built confidence, and finally learned what made ME happy. I prioritized myself, found a job I love, started this business, published two books, and continuously grow.
Now it’s time for you to feel the same way too.
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